Description of my ideal boyfriend
Ohhh gosh. This one is going to be difficult because I really don’t have a criteria for a boyfriend. I feel like there are a couple things that I do PREFER, however if they cannot be met I can find compromises.
I do like a guy who can protect me and take care of me. I like to feel safe in my relationships. I like guys with a sense of humor (so cliche but so true!), but knows when to control it. I had an ex who would consistently use humor in inappropriate situations (at least what I considered inappropriate). For example, I periodically feel down in the dumps, and he would attempt to rectify it with some kind of joke that completely belittled what I was feeling and plain just insulted it. I feel that some guys just don’t know when to stop.
Moving on, I also prefer a guy who not only has a good sense of humor, but has a good sense of self worth and the worth of others. I don’t want a guy to constantly put himself down just to collect compliments and reassurance from me. This ties into the taking care of me thing. If you don’t believe in yourself, how can I ever believe in you?
Looks can vary. The only thing is: HE HAS TO BE TALLER THAN ME. I just can’t be with someone shorter than me. And because I like to wear heels so often, I’d prefer him to be much taller than me so that when I wear heels he is still taller.
I think that’s about it..
Oh yeah, he has to be older than me. I have a feeling I wouldn’t work well with a guy who was younger than me. This means that I would have to be the more mature person in the relationship. I don’t think that could work out..